|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
You've heard people say that opportunity only knocks once. I say it knocks a thousand times, or at least it can. The problem is, we often don't listen, we don't see, or we don't want to work. The biggest problem, though, is that opportunity really isn't opportunity, if you're not ready for it.
A couple I know had a business handed to them for free. The owner didn't want to deal with it anymore, even though it made money. He had other things going on in his life. He couldn't just call it quits, however, because the lease on the building had nine months to go. This is where my friends enter the story. Why did they have a business given to them?
They listened, and let the man tell his story.
They looked at the business, and saw the opportunity.
They worked, doing what it took to benefit from their "good luck."
The owner agreed to give them the business if they would simply take over the lease on the building.
Get Ready For Opportunity
The biggest reason "opportunity knocked" however, includes the others, and goes beyond them: They were ready.
They had a little bit of money to handle the transition, they had previous experience with a small business, and they were willing to learn what they needed to learn.
A friend once said that our mutual acquaintance John was "so lucky" to get a $6,000 car for $2,000 at an auction. I mentioned that John went to the auction regularly, that he had made himself familiar with car values, and that he always kept some money available for such opportunities. It didn't seem to register with my friend.
He could have been "so lucky," too, but he had to be ready. He could have saved $2,000, or obtained a credit card with a high enough limit, or arranged with someone to borrow the money and split the profits when deals like this came up. Not having done any of these things, there was no opportunity here for him.
When you want opportunity to come knocking, aren't there always ways you can prepare? If you want to be lucky in love, you comb your hair, right? If you want opportunities in the stock market, start studying, setting aside money to invest, and exploring the possibilities. Get ready for opportunity, and it will come more often.
Steve Gillman writes on many self help topics including boosting brainpower, losing weight, meditation, habits of mind, creative problem solving, learning grattitude, generating luck and anything related to self improvement. You'll find more at http://www.selfimprovementnow.com






Growing up, we all had a mental picture of the perfect life partner The person we thought would be our happily-ever-after -- a person with a perfect... Read More
As we age and our teeth shift, a gap between the teeth may suddenly appear. If you have a tooth extracted which is not immediately replaced with... Read More
The purpose of human existence is to send out impulses to influence the environment and people where one exists, and feed upon what is received in return.... Read More
Body language is fascinating. People rarely recognize how much information they give off and how noticeable it is to the human eye. Even to the untrained human... Read More
Are you looking for that "something" to give you the winning edge in your business? Is success still elusive even after burning both ends of the candle?... Read More
An ideal is not the dream that can never be realised, that certain weak-willed individuals like to imagine, if only to provide themselves with an excuse for... Read More
Although you know better, you do not apply all that you have learned when it comes to making the most of yourself. If this is true for... Read More
That's all it takes to change the world. Take a long hard look in the mirror and really notice who you are.We're all screaming for peace right... Read More
Meet the most important person you will ever meet in your life. You better! For sometime during your life you will meet him. He could appear very... Read More
Millions of people face huge changes in their lives during the midlife years and most seem to be glad they made the changes, but only if they've... Read More
When you begin to study feng shui, you quickly realize the importance of the qualities and characteristics of the five feng shui elements: wood, fire, earth, metal,... Read More
Each person has her or his own place and purpose. We all possess unique talents and unique ways of expressing them. This means each of us can... Read More
One of the goals that I encourage my clients to work on is to create a list of people they wish to meet.What kind of people?People who... Read More
Is there a way to change your life condition, and manifest your desires at the fastest possible speed?YES! Definitely! There is a secret that can make you... Read More
Emile Coué, the French psychotherapist once said: "When the imagination and will power are in conflict, are antagonistic, it is always the imagination which wins, without any... Read More
Heading back to the car after lunch, a good-looking guy with a swagger caught my attention.Or rather his t-shirt did!Emblazoned across his back were the words, 'I... Read More
Wherever you go, there you are. There's no escaping it - your world is a reflection of you and if the view in your mirror doesn't elicit... Read More
The secret of attraction is the unconscious hope for healing and understanding. This is why we are so discriminating in our choice of a marital partner. Not... Read More
Have you ever had "one of those days" when absolutely everything goes wrong? Have you ever wondered why some people are successful, while others spend their entire... Read More
It's always easier to attract the things we want in life than to chase them down and catch them. My grandmother used to say, "You catch more... Read More
During a recent speech, I told the audience that my mission was to empower the self-employed to succeed. Instantly a hand shot up in the audience. "What's... Read More
In Twelve Step meetings, it's traditional to groan when someone says, "Let's have a gratitude meeting." People don't like to talk or think about what they're grateful... Read More
There is nothing more motivating than reading a story about someone who comes from a poor, difficult life and rises above it to do so much with... Read More
The joy of living is in loving. No doubt, only lovers enjoy life!Live every moment of your life as a love-live affair and create a win-win situation... Read More
"You can create what you want in life; first you have to imagine it clearly. Imagine your ideal scene," Marc Allen, The Millionaire Course.How do you use... Read More
I remember a football game from last season when the Philadelphia Eagles were hosting the Carolina Panthers. One of the announcers said something like this: "If this... Read More
The world we are living in is changing at a fast pace. Never before in the history of mankind that change was so enormous and rapid. This... Read More
How do we make friends? More importantly if dropped into a new city or a new job or a new school, how do we go about making... Read More
Aging is inevitable, but its most negative effects can be minimized and turned into a graceful progression. Exercise and proper diet are key factors. But, when your... Read More
Is being special or unique a property of an object (let us say, a human being), independent of the existence or the actions of observers - or... Read More
Most people have some aspects of themselves that they would like to change. But how often do you dig deeply to find the root of the problem?You... Read More
Many people forget business is a way of service. When you serve others, you make a life instead of making a living. Jesus said he came to... Read More
You limit yourself. Yes, it is true. Each day you behave in much the same way as you have always done. You act out your habitual ways... Read More
Being a child of the Seventies I'm a real fan of the original Star Wars movies.Do you remember that fantastic scene in A New Hope where Obi-Wan... Read More
Do you remember your younger years when you and your friends played all sorts of fun games all day long? I'm sure you do. If there is... Read More
We see it and do it enough times to know just how it works. Resolutions are set, goals written down, strategic action plans put in place. And... Read More
Many of you already know that I've been divorced for 5 years now (Martinis for Everyone!), but I learned more than a few valuable lessons in those... Read More
Perhaps, you have heard the phrase "May the force be with you" from your favorite Episode of the Star Wars movies. The Star Wars movies explore the... Read More
The Law of ThanksgivingIt's easy to be grateful around the Thanksgiving holiday. But what if we were able to find ourselves feeling grateful year round? What that... Read More
"How's it going?" I asked the clerk in the new bookstore. "Well you know," she replied "it takes a long time to build a business." I caught... Read More
In a society where interaction is part of everyday life, and other people form a vital part of life, other people's opinions are actually important in where... Read More
The day of duck-taped glasses, suspenders and pocket-protectors are quickly fading away. It's getting harder to pick the geeks out of the crowd.Welcome to the day of... Read More
First of all, you have to trust that you are perfect at the core of your original mind, at the centre of your heart. Pull out the... Read More
Rejection is one of the most painful experiences in relationships. Not only rejection from our partner, but also rejection from ourselves. As soon as some feel their... Read More
Feeling trapped by lack of funds? We can learn from those who live comfortably and retire early. They use language differently from those who are stuck in... Read More
"Your good name and your reputation are EVERYTHING! ? Protect them at all costs!" my father used to say to me when I was a lad.Even at... Read More
Good luck was not part of my life for many years until; I discovered a formula that has proven to be effective for me and many others.Are... Read More
He's your good friend. She's your best confidant. You have known each other for a few years and have shared meals, movies, hobbies and vacations. You have... Read More
Visualization is an essential tool for attracting your dreams and desires. To manifest in your outer life, your dreams must first manifest inside your mind.Visualization is a... Read More
If you had to write an annual appraisal on yourself how would you describe yourself?? Are you a mental sprinter who sees things quickly and easily? Do... Read More
When my wife and I were searching for a new Las Vegas home in 2002, we wanted it to have a solid foundation based on Feng Shui... Read More
These eight success secrets apply to anything you do in life, not just to doing business offline or online.First: LOVE is the foundation of everything--love for whatever... Read More