|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Today, feng shui is used for everything from arranging office cubicles to gaining more recognition at work to helping aspiring writers become more prolific. But what if what you want is a baby? When you are trying to conceive, feng shui can be another tool in your fertility arsenal.
Fertility is such a delicate thing because it can be affected so easily. This is where feng shui can come help. Feng shui can help create a more balanced, harmonious ? and relaxed ? environment for conception to occur.
Obviously, the first place to look at is the home. Perhaps there is some kind of energy blockage. Another consideration is the personal feng shui are the parents. This is the feng shui that is related to gender and birthdate.
Unlike western thought, feng shui for parents places the most emphasis on the father and not the mother. The father must have what is called "descendant's luck." This is where personal feng shui can be called upon to help improve this type of luck.
Renowned feng shui writer, Lillian Too, credits every book to her daughter Jennifer, whom she says was conceived after a feng shui master visited her home and saw that a tree was blocking her front door. The master told her that once the tree was removed she became pregnant.
True to his prediction ? and after nine infertile years of marriage ? Lillian's daughter was born. This was also what launched her full study and practice of feng shui.
When it comes to enhancing fertility with feng shui, though, it would be wise to address both parents as well as the home. This way, a complete approach will be taken and nothing is overlooked. Fertility feng shui can't create miracles but it can create a positive environment in which miracles can occur.
6 Tips for Improving Fertility Feng Shui
1. ACTIVATE THE DESCENDANT'S LUCK DIRECTION.
The northwest (NW) is the direction of descendant's luck. It is also the direction of "heaven" according to feng shui (and aren't all babies heaven-sent?).
By positioning the man to sleep with his head pointed in the northwest direction, sit at work facing the NW, eat facing the NW, etc., this will activate his descendant's luck.
It might look odd, if necessary, couples should turn the bed so that the man is sleeping with his head pointing NW. If this makes the man's head point toward the door or sleep with his back to the door, then try another method.
Another way to activate the descendant's luck is to install a metal oscillating fan in the bedroom. Placed in the NW corner and turned on during the day, the fan produces a generous helping of descendant's luck in the bedroom. Be sure to turn it off while sleeping, though, or this luck will be scattered and unable to attach itself to the couple sleeping in the room.
2. USE PERSONAL FENG SHUI.
Personal feng shui is a powerful method for creating good descendant's luck. To calculate your personal feng shui directions, go to http://www.redlotusconsulting.com/KuaCalculator.html
Based on the KUA number, you can determine the man's "personal descendant's luck direction." The man should work, eat, and sleep facing this direction if the NW direction does not work for him.
KUA NUMBER
1 South
2 Northwest
3 Southeast
4 East
5 Northwest
6 Southwest
7 Northeast
8 West
9 North
3. REMOVE ANY BLOCKS TO THE FRONT DOOR.
It worked from Lillian Too, so it might work for you. Be sure that there is an open space out the front door and that there is nothing in direction line with your front door, such as a tree, street, or other object. The front door is considered the "mouth of chi" and is where all energy enters the home. Make this area clean, auspicious, and beautiful.
4. ENHANCE THE WEST SECTOR.
The west is the sector associated with the children. For that reason it is best to avoid having fire objects here, such as candles or bright lamps. Earth objects, such as vases are excellent fertility enhancers. Enhance this portion of the house, living, and bedroom with metal objects, such as fans, stereos, or other electronic or metal items.
Lastly, be sure to address problem areas in the west sectors of the home (and the west corner of your bedroom and living room) such as crowded closets or junk rooms. Work at getting these cleaned out to allow new creative (fertility) energy to enter your life.
If there is a bathroom in this sector, make sure bathroom doors are shut and to keep a bright light on in this room.
5. OBSERVE PROPER BEDROOM FENG SHUI.
Bedroom feng shui is extremely important when you are trying to conceive. Beds should never share the same wall as the door, a bathroom, or a kitchen. Televisions, work objects such as computers, mirrors, plants, and exercise equipment should be removed. Rest and romance should be the only activities in this room.
6. USE FERTILITY SYMBOLS AND ENHANCEMENTS.
Feng shui uses a number of symbols, many of which are thought to enhance fertility. Some of these would include:
Dragons: Placed on the side table of the man's side of the bed, the dragon can add a little extra "oomph" in the bedroom. Make sure the dragon is small, otherwise, it will create too much "yang" energy in the room and make rest difficult.
Elephants: Place a pair of elephants on either side of the bedroom door. Elephants are associated with pregnancy. Or, place one statue of an elephant in the living room. Placed prominently in the bedroom, elephants are said to produce male children.
Double fish: The double fish is a symbol of marital union. Display this in the southwest corner of your bedroom.
Single piece of hollow bamboo: Place this in the north sector of the bedroom to enhance fertility. These are said to aid conception.
Red paper lanterns: hung on either side of the bed, these are believed to bring excellent yang (creative)energy to the bedroom.
When you are trying to conceive, it's always worth taking a comprehensive approach. Fortunately, feng shui can help you make sure the environment supports your endeavors to bring that new addition to your family.
About The Author
Kathryn Weber is the publisher of The Red Lotus Letter feng shui E-Zine. For more information or to subscribe, go to http://www.redlotusletter.com


A baby shower is a simple celebration of family and friends to celebrate the upcoming birth of a new baby. It is a great tradition around the... Read More
Mother's milk is the best choice for healthy baby food. However, there will be a time when the baby needs much more nutrients as they grow up... Read More
Baby slings are one of those things that have been in existence for thousands of years but have only just recently made a comeback in modern society.... Read More
Imagine cuddling up with your small child to look at a picture book together that is interactive, musical, responsive and talks to you?This is the experience that... Read More
It's time to celebrate the baby! As Keepsake Favors' resident baby shower expert, I've learned how to plan a great party without draining your bank account. Here... Read More
Your Capricorn Baby..December 23 - January 19Capricorn babies thrive on routine and order, which gives them the sense of security they need. They are usually even-tempered and... Read More
For years, we have been taught that 13 is an unlucky number: Don't go up to the 13th floor of a building and don't go out on... Read More
Setting the Stage - Reading is One of the Big Boosts to Life:Several studies over several years in several settings have all shown a high correlation between... Read More
Do you want your baby to be thrilled by his or her first Birthday Party? Then you need to come up with interesting ideas for party games... Read More
Is your baby about to start solid foods? Are you thinking of making your own baby food?When you make baby's first foods, you can save money and... Read More
The extent of the memory loss that accompanies new parenthood really surprised me the first few times I experienced it. My task is especially difficult when I... Read More
One of the most exciting events an expecting mother looks forward to is celebrating her baby shower.Deciding to Throw a Baby ShowerBaby showers are often thrown by... Read More
Your Pisces Baby..February 19 - March 20Your baby will have the most winning ways of all babies, and will dazzle you with the sweetest of smiles. She... Read More
Colic hurts. Any parent who has an affected child will know that there is almost no pain like it ? the physical and vocal response to the... Read More
Gift for Dads: The mom is always on the limelight when she is pregnant. Poor Dad! He is also excited as mom. It is his proudest moment... Read More
Baby boy invitations are the first thing you'll need to share the good news of the new arrival with all your friends. It's time to celebrate and... Read More
The idea of using potty dolls to potty train toddlers has been around for some 30 years. Many parents (including myself) have successfully potty trained their children... Read More
To be precise, anything can happen anytime as long as everyone enjoys it. There is no right way or wrong way-anything goes well. But the idea should... Read More
Most people don't know the meaning of their name, but most names do have meanings. You should at least find out the meanings of your favorite choices... Read More
Having a baby is exciting, but also very tough! There are tons of decisions you will make throughout your pregnancy, throughout your babies infancy and during their... Read More
So you carefully fill a spoon with medicine for baby, move it near her mouth and the mouth doesn't open! Maybe it's the smell, but there's no... Read More
First of all, in case you do not know, what is a layette? Well, the definition of layette is quite simple: a kit consisting of a complete... Read More
The design of your home has an amazing affect on the health and well being of your baby. If it is in harmony with nature, it will... Read More
For ages caring parents have carried their babies with them as they completed errands, chores and daily tasks. In case you haven't heard, there are multiple benefits... Read More
If you walk into any baby store or online baby site you will find a multitude of styles and designs of baby bedding available. There is something... Read More
As many as one in three babies are born with a birthmark. These are neither painful or harmful, although about one in a hundred will require medical... Read More
Every parent hopes and prays that their newborn will be healthy and safe. Normally a pregnancy lasts nine months. The gestation of a full term pregnancy is... Read More
The best baby shower invitation ideas help everyone to have fun without adding stress on the expectant mother. Planning for a newborn can be overwhelming to each... Read More
Your Sagittarius Baby..November 22 - December 21 Young Sagittarians are happy and playful. They can be impulsive and will be the kind of child who says 'hello'... Read More
Is your baby about to start solid foods? Are you thinking of making your own baby food?When you make baby's first foods, you can save money and... Read More
The perfect way to spoil the baby shower games is when there is less involvement and participation from your guests. Have you ever been to a baby... Read More
Many parents already know that it is better not to use bedding with small babies. It would be better for them to be dressed in something that... Read More
Books and Babies - For babies from age 6 weeks to 1 year Sharing books is a way to have fun with your baby and to start... Read More
You have just learned that you are expecting a bundle of joy and now you need to begin getting the things your baby will need. If this... Read More
A furniture gift registry helps us streamline to the best choice. Through an online gift registry, parents can find out exactly what is required for their baby.... Read More
As a prospective parent, you may wonder how hard it could possibly be when it comes to learning how to choose a changing table. But you'd be... Read More
Colic hurts. Any parent who has an affected child will know that there is almost no pain like it ? the physical and vocal response to the... Read More
Babies and young children have thinner and more delicate skin than adults. Afterall, our skin has had a lot more years of conditioning to the outside world.... Read More
Lists of baby names are always fun to look at, whether you're seeking a name for your soon-to-be-born baby boy or baby girl, wondering about the popularity... Read More
Today, feng shui is used for everything from arranging office cubicles to gaining more recognition at work to helping aspiring writers become more prolific. But what if... Read More
When you choose a baby bedding, choose the one which can guarantee optimum baby bedding safety and coziness to your baby. The best fabric for the baby... Read More
When children start to walk more steadily, run, push, pull, climb and grab things - they are growing from infants to toddlers. Between their first and second... Read More
When you have already made the decision not to use cloth diapers, your next decision will be how to choose a diaper pail for disposable diapers.To some... Read More
Are you expecting a baby? You might be tempted to buy baby's clothes, although you know most of the time baby will always sleeping and crying during... Read More
Here are guidelines or quick baby shower tips for hosting a successful baby shower party. Come and explore these quick tips. Read more?In this section we are... Read More
Baby is into her fourth month now.Mom's milk is best.Breast milk is still important and sufficient to take care of baby's needs. If you are a working... Read More
Baby furniture can be made up of many different pieces and often makes an ideal baby shower gift. With an endless variety of choices to choose from... Read More
It is up to you as parents whether you want a baby crib to be your child's first bed or not. Some parents are proponents of "co-sleeping,"... Read More
What happen during the first month of your newborn, does your baby need check up? In the first weeks after birth, your newborn begins a series of... Read More
Having a shower for second baby used to be considered greedy and unacceptable. But now it is not only acceptable, but it is actually necessary for some... Read More
Baby Signing..Around 20 years ago, two American doctors discovered baby signing and many thousands of mothers are glad they did!There are many reasons why babies cry. You... Read More
About one quarter of babies will suffer from colic from around age 3 weeks - and you will suffer too! All babies cry of course, but those... Read More