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I've been toying around with this technique that I call "Web Spinning" for a while now and it has been working wonders for me, plus I've had quite a bit of fun during the process... I think you will too. This is how it works:
Spiders spin their web in order to catch their pray, and once their web is spun, they simply sit back and collect food. What you are going to do the same thing in a collective sense, you can think of your reputation as your "web", and the larger (well known) and better your web is, the more women you will attract.
This is quite simple to do, and all you need to do in order to start spinning your "web" is find one attractive women that has many friends and get her to think that you are an attractive guy. From that moment on, each time you are introduced to one of her friends you will be spinning your web larger, but you can not enter into an intimate relationship with ANY of them, because once you do, your web will cease to spin.
The idea is to be introduced to her friends, introduced to their friends, and so on until your web is so large that you'll have your pick of 30+ women. This may take months... but here is the beauty of it:
Each time you are introduced to a new girl, she will be attracted to you regardless of what she would think if she met you on her own, because women's opinions have a heavy... and I mean heavy impact on their friend's opinions... if one girl says your hot, than that gives every other girls the green light to get with you. The ONLY reason that women usually do not get with men they do not find attractive is because are afraid of what other people will say, especially their friends, so if they are told by their friends that you are attractive before they even meet you (which will happen almost every time), when they finally do hang out with you they will only see your best features because they will not be looking at you objectively.
This is the reason why you should not start a relationship with any of these women... flirt with them all, even make them jealous, but do not even kiss one of them. You want to keep them all in competition mode, and the longer you wait before you stop spinning your web, the more they will want you, and the harder they will try.
Once one of the women views you as "theirs", you can bet they will bring out the tanks and flame throwers to defend you, thus your web stops spinning. Plus you will now be viewed as "her man" and you will be looked at objectively by each new girl that you meet instead of having that automatic attraction. The best part about this is that once you are finished spinning your web and decide to date one of these girls, after you stop seeing her you can now pick from any of the other women that are in your web... you can literally do this until you've slept with every single one of them!
*NOTE* This is not for the faint of heart, because by doing this you will most definitely break up some friendships... however, most women go through friends like they go through shoes... so it's all good.
This article was written by the founder of Becomeaplayer.com known only as The Player. For more articles and free tips on picking up women check out the web site.





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