|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
A realistic goal setting workshop:
Have you ever gone to a restaurant ordering a big meal, and ended up not be able to finish the dish? Or have you ever thought of losing 20 pounds in 2 months, and ended beating yourself up? Those are the typical examples of bad goal setting.
We talk a lot about goal setting, but not too many people really understand the true meaning of "goal setting", even to many professional coaches.
A goal setting is best when someone really understands what he really needs.
For example, almost everyone wants more money, and if he doesn't understand the real need/ want behind the money demand? How can he best utilize his skills/ knowledge in order to launch a successful plan?
Unrealistic goals are often resulted due to ambiguity.
Therefore, before setting goals, you should be aware of your own circumstance. Be realistic. Ask your friends, family or consider seeking professional advice. Do not fall into hype or hallucination of your own perception.
Also consider the following points when making up a realistic goal.
1) Is the goal feasible? Any other legal constraint?
2) Time constraint?
3) Financial limitation?
4) General environment feasible?
5) Any possible concern
Final important point to note.
Find someone who has successfully gone through the process that you are going to go through. See how happy they are after the process. Don't judge by the surface, but do more investigation work. You might be surprised that "goal" might not be what you really want at all. Therefore, do think twice before planning and acting.
Resource Box:
------------------------------------------------------------
Want to stay healthy and live wealthy? YES, it can be done! Grab THOUSANDS worth of health products & start a health related business today, both online and off! http://www.pushbuttonhealthguide.com
------------------------------------------------------------

You had your new years resolution all set. You knew exactly what you needed to do, maybe you even got off to a fantastic start. Then suddenly... Read More
IntroductionThere were two incidents, which inspired me to write this write-up, "When Expectations are not clear". Sometime back, I had this interaction with a CEO of one... Read More
IF I WON THE LOTTERY, IWOULDN'T NEED TO JOB SEARCH!Let's take a look at how many people win lotteries in a year's time. We all know the... Read More
We are moving rapidly through 2005, and you'll find previously intelligent and reasonable people struggling with trying to keep a 'resolution' that they made earlier in the... Read More
Have you ever wondered: "How does this 'Law of Attraction' really work? Can I really attract only what I want?"You Can! It requires you to make many... Read More
What's your dream? Want to give your vision a jumpstart? Write down your goals and use these questions to speed up delivery of your dream.1. What's your... Read More
I recently had the pleasure of motorcycle riding instruction from a friend, Tony, a professional racer. He was an outstanding instructor and provided some great experience-based insight... Read More
As I was driving to a friend's house, I passed the Dublin Pub, a local watering hole known for its live music. On the reader board, one... Read More
Have you ever considered why some things succeed and others fail? Well the answer is in those few words. "What is success, and what is failure?"To one,... Read More
Creating your path to success depends on walking on a firm foundation. Knowing WHAT you want is only the beginning. Visualizing what you want and repeating affirmations... Read More
We hear a lot about the steps we should take to achieve our goals, however unless we take the first steps to realistically consider who and what... Read More
Every person who succeeded at a high level, in any business venture, probably said goal setting played a big part of their success. But often the person... Read More
Tragedy doesn't make an appointment. It attacks! A terrifying surprise that explodes in the midst of a family. Tragedy brings with it multiple consequences as well?financial disaster,... Read More
"Success is not final, failure is not fatal, it is the courage to continue that counts." -Winston Churchill"I can accept failure, but I can't accept not trying."... Read More
"Every man should be born again on the first day of January. Start with a fresh page...on the first of January let every may straighten himself once... Read More
Keep Your Goals Fresh In Your Mind - Most of us have goals, the question is how many of us actually follow-up and work those goals.What I... Read More
Most quit smoking books, maybe all of them won't tell you what I'm about to tell you next. Fasting is one of the best methods to quit... Read More
What do u wanna be when you grow up?" " I don't wanna grow up"!! How lovely it would be if we don't grow up and be... Read More
We have all had times in our lives where someone discouraged our beliefs or even passions in life. Maybe someone told you that you couldn't do something... Read More
We all have goals and dreams that we want to accomplish-some big, some small. But until we can organize a plan on how to pursue these goals... Read More
Are you trying to reach a goal that feels like a large mountain to climb?Climbing a mountain is much easier than one would think. You start at... Read More
5.Submit it to good leaders (accountability breeds stability and security)· Vision is always too much for one man / woman to handle (bodyOne of the key reasons... Read More
Let's get started with the emotional part!1. Take time out. Take some time and relax. You have been through a traumatic experience. Don't worry about anything at... Read More
Do you have a dream, but keep postponing it because you feel trapped by the responsibilities of life? Want to be a writer, work from home, own... Read More
Nothing gets done unless an action is completed. Everything we do is an action step. Of course some are so routine they don't really need to be... Read More
Why is it when you set goals for yourself most of them are not realised?How is it that intelligent people, who take time out to refocus and... Read More
Note: This article was originally written at mid year so it is good reminder around June but the principles are applicable anytime.In a sporting event, the players... Read More
With goal objectives in mind, consider the organizers of a marathon race. They take time to mark out the course. The way is planned. Otherwise reaching the... Read More
If you have always been procrastinating on how to get started or going with your goals, try this interesting method. Write a blog."What? You are asking me... Read More
Have you been having trouble achieving a specific goal? Are you allowing other less important things to get in the way of accomplishing what you really want?... Read More
Why is it that some goals have a fire and a passion behind them that creates an almost self-propelled drive towards completion, while other goals are left... Read More
We all have goals that are important to us. They range from quitting smoking, to creating our own businesses, to raising great kids. Unfortunately, most of us... Read More
Is your life on purpose? Does just the question stop you in your tracks? Have you been so caught up in the pace of our world that... Read More
Focus is the single most important factor that will determine whether your dreams come true or not. Depending on what your dreams are, there are so many... Read More
Do you have trouble taking a day off? Boy, I do. When I take a day off I lie around all day, read novels, eat whatever I... Read More
So you've got a goal, and you know someone who has already reached it? Maybe it is earning a certain degree, or opening a business and making... Read More
Many professionals have a basic idea of what they want to achieve in their careers. They may want to close more sales, earn a higher income, or... Read More
Examine your own personal goals and find methods to achieve your desires with these valuable quotations about setting goals..."The most important thing about having goals is having... Read More
What is your reason for setting a goal?This is the first, and important question you need to ask yourself. Why? If your reason for setting your goal... Read More
Have you ever wondered: "How does this 'Law of Attraction' really work? Can I really attract only what I want?"You Can! It requires you to make many... Read More
Goals are extremely important and are the key to any success plan. However, we hear about goals so much that we often take this step for granted.... Read More
The Hasidic master, Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach taught that on Passover night we are bringing our entire life stories to the Seder table to be freed. What exactly... Read More
I am writing you from the quaint sea town of New Bern, NC where my wife and I are catching some much needed R&R.Lately many of our... Read More
Does personal goal setting work? Many people want things, situations or accomplishments, call these goals, and then are disappointed when they don't get them. Call desires goals... Read More
"What would you like to accomplish in the next 90 days?"That's the question I often ask of my coaching clients or seminar members as we begin to... Read More
Creating your path to success depends on walking on a firm foundation. Knowing WHAT you want is only the beginning. Visualizing what you want and repeating affirmations... Read More
Do you think your life is passing you by and you want to get back on track? Do you feel you are stuck in a rut and... Read More
Many people envy academics who take sabbaticals. What they don't realize is that sabbaticals are not designed as time on the beach. You are supposed to use... Read More
Here are several quotes about setting and achieving goals. My comments follow.The weakest ink is better than the strongest memory. - John RickenbackerDo you want to dramatically... Read More
It's been said that everyone has goals, whether we know it or not. We have goals to keep our current job, or to get a different one.... Read More
I began enhancing my personal energy level three months shy of my 40th birthday and after 2 years of struggling with clinically-diagnosed depression. During this same period,... Read More
The Belief That You Can Do It and more importantly, That You Will!First, You must choose one goal and commit to it's achievement. It seems that this... Read More