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("He" in this text - to mean "He" or "She").We react to serious mishaps, life altering setbacks, disasters, abuse, and death by going through the phases of... Read More
All of us at one time or another have felt grief: perhaps over a lost job, lost love, or the most heartbreaking, the death of someone we... Read More
It was a couple of weeks after Christmas, and I was standing by my mailbox in the vestibule of the apartment building where I lived in Lexington,... Read More
In my work as a coach and therapist, I have seen many clients dealing with losses of all kinds-loss of loved ones through death and divorce, for... Read More
Everyday, I look in the mirror to see the face staring back at me. Sometimes it is lined with stress, sorrow and grief. Other times, it simply... Read More
The following is a report that indicates how you might recognize suicidals, and how you might deal with them. But a warning: Suicide can be a very... Read More
Men grieve differently from women. Our cultural roles make it difficult for men to look for support, and harder again to accept it. Men are so often... Read More
It is one thing to be free; it is quite another to be liberated. Liberation implies that freedom was absent for a time, and there was bondage.... Read More
I've always waited for the perfect moment to be happy: As though time were a flower waiting to bloom. My scruffy puppy-happy senior dog knows better. Watching... Read More
Do you spend most of your time inside or outside of your body? If you know what I'm talking about then I can almost certainly say that... Read More
There are many experiences in life, which remind us that change is an inevitable part of living. We then have to choose to either to resist this... Read More
I am 23 years old. I come from a large family. I have 2 brothers (6 and 7), and 3 sisters (2months, 17, and 21). We are... Read More
Why We Fear Death"Men fear death as children fear to go in the dark." - BaconThere may be a thousand reasons why we fear death, but most... Read More
In a town the size of mine - about 16,000 - can a few suicides within a 90-day period be considered an epidemic? I'd say so. Quite... Read More
Have you ever sat down and played a piano where one of the keys wasn't working? Or made cookies and left out an ingredient? Perhaps you've started... Read More
You will often hear that grief and loss bring couples together, but it can actually do just the opposite. It is possible to emerge on the other... Read More
We all experience severe heart break at some time in our lives. For many it happens in childhood or adolescence, the time when we are most vulnerable.... Read More


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Men grieve differently from women. Our cultural roles make it difficult for men to look for support, and harder again to accept it. Men are so often... Read More
There are many different kinds of losses we can experience in our lives. Indeed, loss in human beings has its beginnings in the birth process that separates... Read More
Sending a floral tribute is a very appropriate way of expressing sympathy to a family who has experienced the loss of a loved one. Flowers express a... Read More
Why We Fear Death"Men fear death as children fear to go in the dark." - BaconThere may be a thousand reasons why we fear death, but most... Read More
No one likes to think about illness and death, when we are well, we feel invincible and there is nothing that can prepare us for the shock... Read More
All of us at one time or another have felt grief: perhaps over a lost job, lost love, or the most heartbreaking, the death of someone we... Read More
Remembering someone special in a personal way can be healing for everyone concerned, for a eulogy is a deeply personal way of saying goodbye. The key word... Read More
In my work as a coach and therapist, I have seen many clients dealing with losses of all kinds-loss of loved ones through death and divorce, for... Read More
Anticipatory grief is the name given to the mix of emotions experienced when we are living in expectation of loss and grieving because of it. Anticipatory Grief... Read More
I was with my daddy when he died. Excuse me, I was with my daddy when his spirit left his body. I drove him to the emergency... Read More
What is it about Grief & Loss that upsets us so much? Is it the heavy duty emoting that we have to do to get through our... Read More
I opened the dishtowel drawer for about the sixth time, hoping the towels had somehow magically appeared.The brand new towels still weren't there, of course."What did Mom... Read More
When I invited Martha to the gathering at my house, she accepted the invitation cheerfully. Martha was new to the area and so I thought this small... Read More
The question of whether, say, a man should have the right to take away his life granted pain and suffering have overcome him is a very important... Read More
Suicide is the one form of death that has quite a stigma attached to it. It brings with it a feeling of shame and betrayal. It is... Read More
My dearest Grandma, I will never forget you & sorry that I was not there with you when you passed.Grandma...I can't believe The last kiss, The last... Read More
During the two years of my husband's terminal illness, death was never far from my mind. We had been told he was dying and even a time... Read More
As a small business owner we have to deal with tax law changes, local ordinances, environmental laws, Worker's Compensation, etc. Just when we thought we had everything... Read More
If tears are an indication of how special my relationship with my mother was, I cry with pride! I've come to see grief as pain with a... Read More
"Dad, I tried to wake Nana, I think she's dead." "Grandpa died yesterday." "Oh my God, Daddy's dead." "Uncle Jack died today." "Grandma died... Read More
Few of us care to think about the inevitability of our own demise. We except that we are not immortal, however for the most part, we are... Read More
Today's Quote: "My house is burned down, but I can see the sky." Sally Reed, cancer survivorThirty five years ago this weekend, my father died. Killed when... Read More
I've always waited for the perfect moment to be happy: As though time were a flower waiting to bloom. My scruffy puppy-happy senior dog knows better. Watching... Read More
We all experience severe heart break at some time in our lives. For many it happens in childhood or adolescence, the time when we are most vulnerable.... Read More
Over the years, I've heard many people voice their concerns of death and dying. It wasn't that they had any maladies that would cause them to die... Read More
The question of whether, say, a man should have the right to take away his life granted pain and suffering have overcome him is a very important... Read More
Have you ever sat down and played a piano where one of the keys wasn't working? Or made cookies and left out an ingredient? Perhaps you've started... Read More
Over the years, I've heard many people voice their concerns of death and dying. It wasn't that they had any maladies that would cause them to die... Read More
Have you ever lost the ability to laugh? I did.When Arlyn died, I knew I would never laugh again. After all, my child had taken her own... Read More
Are you spending this Mother's Day wondering if you are, in fact, a mother? 900,000-1 million women in the U.S. alone face this question every year after... Read More
It was a couple of weeks after Christmas, and I was standing by my mailbox in the vestibule of the apartment building where I lived in Lexington,... Read More
I opened the dishtowel drawer for about the sixth time, hoping the towels had somehow magically appeared.The brand new towels still weren't there, of course."What did Mom... Read More
I am an Angel artist and several weeks ago while listening to the late night news, a news story came on that really touched my heart. On... Read More
Angelo C, was a good man that never did any harm. He died yesterday in the shower over a severe asthma attack. The entire school cried and... Read More
In 1969, Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross published her famous book; On Death and Dying and later went on to launch the Hospice movement in America. Even though her... Read More
The well-known pioneer researcher Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross identified five states through which the dying patient goes. It is also true that the recently bereaved and the about... Read More
It was a moment I will never forget.On February 22, 2003, I was visiting with my son Brian Michael (http://www.BrianMichaelGuthrie.com) at his home in North... Read More
When the death of a loved one occurs, regardless or whether it was expected or not, you will find yourself having to deal with a great number... Read More
"Dad, I tried to wake Nana, I think she's dead." "Grandpa died yesterday." "Oh my God, Daddy's dead." "Uncle Jack died today." "Grandma died... Read More
Why We Fear Death"Men fear death as children fear to go in the dark." - BaconThere may be a thousand reasons why we fear death, but most... Read More
When he looked at me, it was clear my father wasn't sure who I was. And as I looked back at him, I wasn't sure who he... Read More
What is it about Grief & Loss that upsets us so much? Is it the heavy duty emoting that we have to do to get through our... Read More
September 11, 2001, marked yet another significant turning point in world history. Whatever innocence was left in the world was lost on that fateful day.On lesser numeric... Read More
Coping with the death of a loved one is never easy, regardless of how old you are when that loss occurs. For children who lose a parent,... Read More
During the two years of my husband's terminal illness, death was never far from my mind. We had been told he was dying and even a time... Read More
I got an email recently from someone whose mother died. She knew I'd suffered the loss of my mother and wanted some insight on how to deal... Read More
Too many people are dying alone?The dying are one of society's most unrecognized and under-served groups. As individuals near the end of life they are often ignored,... Read More
Few of us care to think about the inevitability of our own demise. We except that we are not immortal, however for the most part, we are... Read More
The impatient tooting of a car horn startled us into awareness. No one had thought beyond making it through the grievous night. Now the sun was up,... Read More
Remember the Eulogy projects we had to write back in High School? Death is a tough subject to broach, and many would rather deny death then embrace... Read More